Entries for April, 2005
April 10th, 2005
talking about boyfriends... [kelangan ba nito? :P]
talking about boyfriends...1.Dapat ba guwapo?
* ahh ehh... cute? ewan ko, la na kc akong standards since i met him eh... nyahaha!
2.Matalino?
* ahh ehh... cgro... pro not literally tulad ko na mataas rank in classroom, it ain't matter anyway db?
3.Preferred Age?
* OMG! dati rati any age not younger than me! but then again... arrrrgggghhhh!! :mad:
4.Preferred Height?
* nyeh? ang lam ko kc halos magkaheight kme eh, owkei lng un xempre skn xe im... ahhh... d ble nlng!;P
5.How about sense of humor?
*nyahaha! la nko pkelam, srap niang kausap!
6.How about piercings?
* uhm? whatever, kht p cgro sa ilong nia, la nmn xang peircings eh...
7.Accepts me for who I am?
* ofkorz! duh!
8. Pink hair?
* nyeh? bhala na c batman! haha!
9.Mushy or no?
* yep... pero bhala n xa!
10.Thin or Fat?
* he's way thin! mas payat p nga skn eh!
nyahaha!
11.Moreno or Chinito or Mestiso?
* ehhh.. tama lang.. tngnan nio nlng xa.. nyahaha!
12.Long Hair or Short Hair?
* clean cut eh, bait!
13.Plastic or Metal?
* anong metal? yoko higit sa lahat ang plastik no!
14.Smells good?
* he smells dangg good!
15.Smoker?
* nope, never!
16.Drinker?
* hmmmm, maginuman kame? pag ako hindi,
wag na wag din xa!
17.boy-next-door type?
* uhm.. i dunno, di ko nga lam un eh!
18.Musically inclined?
* uhm? yup? nyahaha!
19.Plays Piano?
* it's way sweet if he plays a single instrument, but then again, if he can't i can accept that.. haha! ^_^
20.Plays guitar?
* extra pogi points!
21.Plays violin?
* eh?
22.Sings very good?
* sing nga ba o....????????
23.vain?
* he ain't vain, he's way too shy duh!
24.With Glasses?
* duh! i wanna look deep into his eyes!
25. With Braces?
* duh! di bagay sknya... bhla n xa! ;P
26.Shy type?
* ehhhh... ganun xa eh! :mad:
27. frm ADMU or DLSU?
* whatever school.. lcc? ;P
28.Active or Passive?
* active...
29.Sporty or Couchpotato?
* sporty! pro ndi nmn xa gnun eh! nyahahaha!
30.Singer or Dancer?
* uhm, galing dw nia sumyw eh, pro d q p nkta,, hehe ;P
[ang hirap nmn nitong sagutan! may basehan kc eh! haha!]
yahn @ 12:43 PM [Add comment/s]
April 15th, 2005
Thinking of Writing Once Again
Well, hello world! Did you all miss me? Well, I do hope so! ^_^Anyway, we all know I've been pretty uptight, busy and much-too-attached to my activities here that I almost lost time to write. It's as if, obviously, I had more time to change my layout for numerous times just for this month rather than pour out a little of piece of myself. Now, whatever inspired me to write once again and share some opinions with you all? Hmmm, let me see.
Just early this afternoon, I read an article in the STAR about the late Pope John Paul II, or better known now as John Paul the Great. It's really amazing, I just noticed that I shouldn't be calling the earlier popes Pope Pius V or Pope Paul VI or even Pope John XXIII since it's completely inappropriate for they already passed away and they aren't the current pope! All we can just say is that they the former popes of our religion, Catholicism[sometimes Christianism], and I also just realized that after a pope has passed away, then it's time to really define what they had done for this world through changing, altering or adding something on their used names. You know what I'm talking about here? Yeah right!
Anyway, after that, I just thought that I'd like to read a book. And so the first book that crossed my mind is my father's book, the famous Conversations with GOD. I know I've read that book before but didn't manage to finish it, even though I'm almost half-way through the book. Still then, I decided to read it all over again, I read it from the introduction, that's why my eyes are killing me now! But just half-way through Chapter 1, I decided to give up reading the said book. Why? For the simple reason that I managed to acknowledge just then that my can't comprehend yet the contents of that book. I finally set the truth free to myself that I really can't comprehend yet such a deep, meaningful book yet, not because I can't understand it, but maybe because I really think that it's not yet appropriate for my age, my current situation in life, my present need in my life. I know, it's better to read it now, and that I don't have to wait for that right moment for me just to read it. But still, I really think that I'm not destined to read such a book right now. My current mood or reason for reading a book doesn't seem right or doesn't fit to whom the book is dedicated. Right now, I plan to read a book monthly to feed my longing for knowledge and to kill boredom within me. While the book is dedicated and appropriate for those unhappy people or somewhat lost people-- well I think it's MORE appropriate for them than for me.
So you see, that's my dilemma right now. I've said it, that I plan on reading a book every month. I really do hope it works and some kind of change would shed on me. But then again, I just wanna open up my world in a new dimension-- I wanna explore the ups and downs of reading a book. The dilemma now is that I don't know what book to read.
Right now, I'm thinking of a nice love story book. Something like that would be okay for me. Anyway, any book telling a story would actually do. That's all what I'm asking for. A self-help book? Nah! Nothing compares to Sean Covey's 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens. I don't need a self-help book anymore, the last book I read was enough! Believe me!
We got lots of books here at home right now. Almost a bookshelf of Mils & Goons or something like that are here, my mom's favorites by the way. They are collections of love stories. We also got here a collection of fairy tale stories. Well, maybe I can reread them again and reminisce the nice stories we loved back then.
Oh well, my eyes are really killing me now! Can't continue anymore. I'll be gone next week so, no posts again then! Don't worry, I'll be back with lots of stories from the province. I promise!
Goodbye then! ^_^
mood quixotic
listen Suntok sa Buwan - Sessionroad
yahn @ 09:21 PM | Ice-peek! [1 comment/s]
April 20th, 2005
Habemus Papam!
We have a pope! We have a pope!Tuesday evening, Vatican time, Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger was declared 265th pontiff of the Catholic family in St. Peter's Basilica, now famously known as Pope Benedict XVI.
Former cardinal Joseph Ratzinger, chosen name Pope Benedict XVI, is the first German pope after a millenium, wherein in the eleventh century there were about three German popes.
The pope will have to face some tough issues we are all facing today, including the relationship and communication with Islams in Iraq, as well as scandals within the church. At age 78, though quite old, the pope will do his best to make a difference in our church.
yahn @ 06:36 PM | Ice-peek! [4 comment/s]
April 24th, 2005
Quite Interesting ^_~
Kids in grade school think fast!TEACHER: Why are you late?
WEBSTER: Because of the sign.
TEACHER: What sign?
WEBSTER: The one that says, "School Ahead, Go Slow."
TEACHER: Cindy, why are you doing your math multiplication on the floor?
CINDY: You told me to do it without using tables!
TEACHER: John, how do you spell "crocodile?"
JOHN: K-R-O-K-O-D-A-I-L"
TEACHER: No, that's wrong
JOHN: Maybe it's wrong, but you asked me how I spell it!
TEACHER: What is the chemical formula for water?
SARAH: H I J K L M N O!!
TEACHER: What are you talking about?
SARAH: Yesterday you said it's H to O!
TEACHER: George, go to the map and find North America.
GEORGE: Here it is!
TEACHER: Correct. Now class, who discovered America?
CLASS: George!
TEACHER: Willie, name one important thing we have today that we didn't have ten years ago.
WILLIE: Me!
TEACHER: Tommy, why do you always get so dirty?
TOMMY: Well, I'm a lot closer to the ground than you are.
TEACHER: Ellen, give me a sentence starting with "I."
ELLEN: I is...
TEACHER: No, Ellen..... Always say, "I am."
ELLEN: All right... "I am the ninth letter of the alphabet."
TEACHER: "Can anybody give an example of COINCIDENCE?"
JOHNNY: "Sir, my Mother and Father got married on the same day, same time."
TEACHER: "George Washington not only chopped down his father's cherry tree, but also admitted doing it. Now do you know why his father didn't punish him?"
JOHNNY: "Because George still had the ax in his hand."
TEACHER: Now, Sam, tell me frankly, do you say prayers before eating?
SAM: No sir, I don't have to, my Mom is a good cook.
TEACHER: Desmond, your composition on "My Dog" is exactly the same as your brother's. Did you copy his?
DESMOND: No, teacher, it's the same dog!
TEACHER: What do you call a person who keeps on talking when people are no longer interested?
PUPIL: A teacher.
SILVIA: Dad, can you write in the dark?
FATHER: I think so. What do you want me to write?
SYLVIA: Your name on this report card.
[from satsuki's tab ^_^ it already made my day!
]Dear Diary,
I'm really lazy and crazy these past few days. I am not much in the mood of visiting my close near-by friends, or even chatting with them on the phone! I am load-less right now and even if I had that big prepaid amount, I wouldn't take much time texting anyone. I don't know. Right these days, I just didn't feel like communicating, or moreover, socializing with other bodies. You know what I'm saying? It's just that, I don't think it's one those days that I would love to talk to my closest friends.
Well, it's not exactly that way, anyway. All I know is that, the closest friend that I would want to talk to-- and love to talk to these past few days-- is none other than my sister. Yeah, I don't love talking to her actually, but I also don't hate talking to her! Get me? It's just that, sometimes she's not quite that very good communicator. But then again, her way of communicating just satisfies me, and I just love it! I mean, when you talk to her, she likes much talking about herself and she likes monopolizing the talk, just like any other girl. That didn't piss me off, since I wasn't really in the mood to communicate. It's as if I just realized that though I'm not into talking right now, I'm right in the mood anyways to listen.
Just recently, I just learned a quite interesting but very helpful lesson for me. I learned how to truly communicate, though I haven't tried it yet. I have learned how valuable listening truly is. I'm actually beginning to apply the principles I've learned in Sean Covey's famous book. Though I haven't personally experienced yet the actual effect of listening, I have at least learned that listening is not that easy to learn-- it's a lot harder to practice and apply in real life than memorizing the multiplication table and even learning the art of advicing! I've just realized that listening is way better than advicing because making the other party talk rather than listen will actually make him/her feel better at the end of the story-telling session. Unlike in advicing, it's just an obvious effort to tell the other that you're actually listening-- when in fact, in unforseen ways, you are not interested in the subject matter and you just want him/her to stop feeling the way s/he is feeling right now. But that's not the way it goes for our feelings! We can't control them altogether-- because if s/he can, then s/he shoudn't have come for your comfort. As they usually put it, find someone who will cry for you when you're crying, rather than with someone who'll just comfort you when you're down. In the end, depressed people just want to feel that they're important. And the proof that they are important to someone is by freely letting them show their emotions. But not only show, but also making them feel free to feel what they should feel-- not preventing their emotions and trying to control whatever they're feeling. I'm telling you, it's really hard to control your emotions!
Anyway, I just finished reading Francine Pascal's Liz's Secret Diary. It was quite some book and I like it somehow. Though I don't recommend it much since I just realized that this book is made out of the original TV series! And I'm not really fond of such books taken from another screen play, like Princess Diaries and Sabrina the Teenage Witch. Duh!
This afternoon, I went to my neighbor's house because my good friend stayed there this afternoon. We talked a little about whatever happened already in life. Then we eavesdropped on BJ's pang-ookray in yesterday's Joan's debut. Then I also ate some fishballs, which I just discovered that passes by here in our place but I just hardly notice! Bad for me. Tsk tsk
And lastly, I didn't have time for blogging yesterday and the other day mainly because I thought I would want to write my own novel. Yup. I tried writing back then, when I was still really young, but I easily quit. And now I tried my hand and mind again for a more actual story, but still I didn't manage to finish even chapter one. I was almost done just a while ago, but I changed my mind and just realized to myself, "Man! It ain't that easy to write such a book!" It was really tough and I remembered that this was also my main problem why I easily quit writing the fictional book of mine: I lacked experience. Just that. Oh well, maybe I can try my hand and mind to a more productive pace! ^_~
I'm planning on joining Candy mag's Council of Cool 6. Since I first read it back then, I already wished to join in such an organization. But as usual, I didn't have the guts and the x factoryet, so now, no more backing off even without forwarding yet! I'm gonna go send my essay whether I get accepted or not! Aja! Cross your fingers out there and wish me luck!
By the way, I'm also interested too in those essay writing contests out there that I'm reading, so watch out if you get to see my name! Haha! 
That's all now, bye! ^_^
[]>> Dianne...Ü
mood crazy
listen Southborder's Love of My Life
read Reign of Greed aka El Filibusterismo
yahn @ 09:11 PM | Book Of The Yahn [2 comment/s]
April 25th, 2005
Girls Vs Boys
Here we are [or even maybe just me alone!] again faced with our all-time favorite game of comparison of ours--the battle of the sexes. This silly comparison and battle between the two dominating genders have been going on since almost pre-historic times. Though not that clear, even women before Christ's time have been trying their best to get even with men in their time. But only lately these past few generations that it has been proven that men are equally created as women. In a not so clear way, we can justify the equality between men and women these days through a little comparison of the traits that both parties already had since God created us.Ever since women were awakened to fight for her rights, it has been proven that there really are things that girls can do better than boys. A concrete example of this is the mere washing of dishes-- a very subtle yet annoying task for men. I just don't understand how come men are just whining way too much when it comes to the very thought of doing kitchen chores just like washing the dishes. They'd always reason out the boys don't do kitchen chores. And I just didn't understand their point when they said that.
I remember a little myth that told how come women always washed the dishes. Once there was couple who would always fight about who gets to wash the dishes. Since the husband was under the powerful yelling of his wife, he just stomps off his feet and get pissed off letting his wife win the arguement and making him wash the dishes. But then, he just couldn't take it any longer so he came right through his wife, made a little wager and dealed. The man had a deal that the first one who speaks will be the one to wash the dishes forever. And so it happened and both were really determined to win and not speak. This went on for almost a month and the whole community they lived in noticed this strange thing going on with them. They didn't know about the bet so they thought they tried talking to them, but as usual, since both were equally determined to win, the neighbors looked like fools themselves as if they're talking to thin air. Until finally the old man-cum-philosopher of their community thought they were dead for they closed their eyes already and weren't replying at their expense. When the guy knew this, he was so sure that he is winning already for he knew for sure that the girl would cry out easily at just the thought of being put in a tomb. On the other hand, the girl was so scared and thought that the guy wouldn't let something she was scared of happen to her. On the day of the burial, when the girl was already placed in her tomb--as well as the guy in his--she went hysterical and she shrieked! The whole neighborhood saw this and were shocked. The guy heard his wife screamed so he also got up and told to her as well to their neighbors I've won! I've won! I won't have to clean the dishes ever! Yehey!, the loud, cheerful shout of the guy. And from that day forward, women did the washing of dishes.
I just realized upon reading the myth that men are really aggressive and would do anything for something they want! They don't care much who they hurt as long as they get whatever they want, because they are just way too confident that nothing wrong or dangerous would happen. Unlike men, women are the basis of the saying better safe than sorry for girls think of the certain circumstances that could possibly happen in the process! That's why only a few girls get to do adventurous things without hurting themselves in the end.
Even though girls are quite weak in some ways, it's undenied that girls can obviously do whatever she wishes to accomplish. Nowadays, women are much into the work place and not usually at home. They are determined enough to make things work both for themselves and the society she's living in. Women today work hard not only for the money but also to gain respect--the proof that she's equally important as man--that she's been claiming for ever since she was born.
On the other hand, men are not usually playful of girl's feelings, boastful and talk-less when it comes to their problems. Well, maybe that's part of their trait ever since, but I have just learned that those are not their only traits. There are also some commendable traits among men that aren't usual for women, but women just misunderstand!
Just an example of this is sportmanship of men. Women obviously defines this sportmanship of men as his child-likeness. Because this sportmanship trait of men is proven in their petty fist-fights with other men. We all know that if men hurt other men's ego or pride, they'd easily conduct themselves to little, destructive fist-fights. But we also know that after a couple of punches and bleeding noses, both parties would end up friendly hugging each other and taking the fight session down to a long, happy beer celebration. I don't know exactly what actually made me think that such fights are proofs of childlikeness, but I have been astonished more to know the fact that this is their way of sportsmanship! They get angry, annoyed, irritated at one another but in the end forget one another's debt with a few punch and black-eye's.
Girls can be like that that too, but for only a few casual circumstances. For girls are usually talkative--meaning they let out all their frustrations, anger and annoyance to someone through making the whole case bigger by telling off their friends and making them take your side against her side. Unlike for girls, men are contended with a few bruises, kicks, bleeding faces, black eye's, punches and headbangs to know that Hey man! That's enough! We're even now.
And so, the greatest battle of all still wages among men and women. But then again, what would be life like without one another? Totally boring and lifeless, for sure! So, boys and girls of all ages, no matter how different our sexualities, strength, weakeness, or characteristics are, we should never forget that all of us are God-made. Let's just all be thankful of Him for He never made only girls, neither only boys. Let's thank His wisdom for He had always balanced our place called earth. And lastly, let's not anymore define and compete with each other's differences, rather let's make ourselves better through learning from each other's differences.
yahn @ 06:40 PM | Ice-peek! [Add comment/s]
Book Review: Liz's Private Thoughts
Lying one night inside my sister's bedroom in my bed, I was thinking a lot about one very usual thing that I have always thought of during summer: what am I going to do this summer? I've started wandering my thought on such ideas since last summer--after having read Sean Covey's famous book called The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens. Well, that night, I finally prepared myself for the following day to do what I was supposed to do years ago--and that was to practice the habit of reading books.I've actually told myself many times back then that I loved reading books. Well, before I have proven myself unworthy of getting hold of a single book--even a fairy tale, fictional, fantasy short story. I was easily bored then to read even the introduction of the little book I held. I was so helpless and trying-hard. And I finally gave up! Hmm, quite good though, since I did a nice try. After closing the book that I should've read, I lifted then the pages of our newspaper. Almost a year ago, we had this evening session at home of reading out loud one single in the newspaper, so as to practice our diction and improve our English speaking skills. That was quite a jump and I actually liked it since I began to like reading as well because of the information it provided me. Then I started to occasionally read the newspaper--whichever part--and it just served me right! I felt better after reading an article and it continued up until now--occasionally changing the type of article I'm reading, from the headlines, to the Entertainment section, to the essays written by wealthy, wise and sometimes professional columnists.
Now, I have this book of the week thing going on for myself. I've finally decided to take time to sit down and read, rather than write. Because, c'mon! What would I write anyway in the first place if I have no single resource? ^_~ Thanks to the Hardy Boys Collection and that "stupid" Eduquest, I'm back at the game of reading books once again! I no longer love reading them, but then again, at least I have some quite interest and like for doing such things during boring times! ^_^
First book I've just finished reading this week is the famous Francince Pascal's hit TV series-based book, Elizabeth's Secret Diary Volume 2. This special book, with Elizabeth Wakefield as the center of the whole story, is about her love life, deep secret thoughts and ideas about anything that goes around life, her close friends' lives, her family, and of course, her own life. Let me share with you some parts of the book that I remember so well.
The first part was about her love life. She had some trouble regarding to whom she really belonged. Her current boyfriend then was Jeffrey. But knowing that his ex, Todd, is coming back, she had butterflies on her stomach and became a lot more unusual than she used to be. She didn't know why she felt such a strange feeling since she knew to herself that she was already over him and she's happy with Jeffrey. But when she found out that Todd still loves her, she finally gave in and admitted both to herself and to him that she still loves him, and that she really wants to give another chance their lost love back. Thanks to Jeffrey, anyway, for he was the bridge that made it all possible for them to be together again--he actually gave up Liz for something that he knew she really loved, and he knew would love her as much. Such a nice, self-sacrificing, painful move of him, isn't it? Anyway, it would actually hurt him more if he didn't let go of Liz in the first place, knowing her true feelings all along!
But still, now that Todd was a whole new person, they had problems most especially regarding their communication. They had to sacrifice their school responsibilities just to see each other [Todd studied in a different school, and not in Sweet Valley High anymore]. When they talked, they easily miscommunicate and misunderstood each other's words so, just after a few days they easily broke up. At the same time, a little something like a district meet was about to happen a week after their break up and unfortunately their schools were rivals. Liz ran for comfort to Jeffrey, with his sweet gestures and encouraging talks with her during practice, and suddenly out of nowhere kissed him passionately as if they were still "on"! She was shocked so she apologized for what happened, but that only proved to her that Jeffrey only wanted to be her friend, rather than her "number two".
The district meet came and fortunately for them, with the ironic help of Courtney, Liz's rival in Todd's heart, they got back together and Todd finally studied again in SVH-- and their relationship prospered from then on!
Part two: her family affairs. A little trouble at home hit her. Well, not just a little, but a major one that made her leave her homies! Her parents misunderstood one another and they almost had a divorce. Poor Liz, she was the most affected person in the whole seperation of their parents for she never wanted her family to be broken into pieces just like any other kid in her neighborhood. In the whole process, her family problems at home 'caused again the break up between her and Todd. Then as usual, she went for comfort to Jeffrey since he was a nice listener and a counsellor so far. She remembered so well then why she loved Jeffrey so much--his ability to make someone feel better through attentive listening. In the end, her parents got back together and she was back in Todd's loving arms again. ^_^
Disaster stuck in the third part. Now that Todd and Liz are back again, she still has Jeffrey on her mind! She can't understand how come she likes two fantastic guys at the same time! Then, Jeffrey finally gave her a hint and asked her to meet him in their romantic hide-out. That was one big decision she had the make for if she went there and meet him, they'd talk over their relationship over, but she didn't, then he'd back off and never bother her again. Liz decided to meet with him--though it was really risky and dangerous especially for her. They kissed passionately and talked over their relationship. Liz confessed that she still had feelings for him, but she knew to herself that she's completely in love with Todd. So she finalized her decision and made it clear to him that it would be the last time for them, and that they just need to say their goodbye's that night. Liz, after saying her goodbye to finish it off to Jeffrey, went home immediately and told no soul about it. But after a few days, they met again in her room! She was so depressed then so she company of someone dear to her. They kissed, but then suddenly out of nowhere, Todd was out in her window, waiting for her! After opening her window, he went straight up to meet her girlfriend. Liz quickly pleaded Jeffrey to hide in the closet and not show up until Todd was gone. He did, and unfortunately saw how Todd and Liz sweet cuddled one another and kissed passionately as they earlier did. Liz, realizing the trouble she caused, immediately pleaded her boyfriend to leave--and he did. While Jeffrey showed up, just right after Todd left, and confronted her with his hurting feelings.
On the fourth part, the whole mess wasn't over yet between them, when Jeffrey almost confessed to Todd the whole truth about them in the heat of a terrible fight between Todd and Liz. Fortunately for Liz, Jeffrey had a little more compassion to her so he didn't confess everything yet--and she and Todd got back together again, happier and stronger than ever.
Oh well, that's how Liz admitted the whole to truth to herself--through her passion for writing. For me, she's your typical quite, principled girl. Since she had this passion for writing and a great, creative mind, she used her journal much to spill everything she can never spill even to her twin sister, Jessica.
Anyway, I have a new book that I'm up to. I'll be back for another book. 'Til then! ^_~
yahn @ 10:54 PM [Add comment/s]
April 26th, 2005
Love, Lust, Relationships...
ABOUT TRUE LOVE & LUSTThe six BIGGEST mistakes we make in the beginning of a relationship:
1. We don't ask enough questions.
2. We ignore warning signs of potential problems.
3. We make premature compromises.
4. We give in to Lust Blindness.
5. We give in to material seduction.
6. We put Commitment Before Compatibility.
Seven Wrong Reasons to be in a Relationship:
1. Pressure (age, family, friends, etc.)
2. Loneliness and desperation
3. Sexual hunger
4. Distraction from your own life
5. To avoid growing up
6. Guilt
7. To fill up your emotional or spiritual emptiness.
The Lust into Love Formula
1. First, you feel powerful sexual chemistry with someone or, in raw terms, lust.
2. Next, you act on those urges and have sex with that person.
3. Then you experience some guilt or discomfort having been so sexually intimate with someone you aren't that emotionally connected with.
4. Finally you create a relationship with that person to legitimize your lust.
Five Realities about Love
1. Love is not enough to make a relationship work--it needs compatibility and it needs commitment.
2. It just takes a moment to experience infatuation, but true love takes time.
3. It is possible to experience true love with more than one person there are many potential partners you could be happy with.
4. The right partner will fulfill many of your needs but not all of them.
5. Good sex has nothing to do with true love, but making love does.
Five Deadly Myths about Love
1. True love conquers all.
2. When it's really true love, you will know it the moment you meet the other person.
3. There is only one true love in the world who is right for you.
4. The perfect partner will fulfill you completely in every way.
5. When you experience powerful sexual chemistry with someone, it must be love.
Fatal flaws to watch out for in a partner:
1. Addictions.
2. Anger.
3. Victim consciousness.
4. Control freak
5. Sexual Dysfunction.
6. Hasn't grown up.
7. Emotionally unavailable.
8. Hasn't recovered from past relationships.
9. Emotional damage from childhood.
Here are seven compatibility time bombs that can destroy a relationship:
1. Significant age difference.
2. Different religious background.
3. Different social, ethnic, or educational background.
4. Toxic in-laws.
5. Toxic ex-spouse.
6. Toxic Stepchildren.
7. Long-distance relationships.
Six qualities to look for in a mate:
1. Commitment to personal growth.
2. Emotional openness
3. Integrity
4. Maturity and responsibility
5. High self-esteem.
6. Positive Attitude towards life
"Treat every relationship as if it's the last one, then you'll know how to Give....
Treat every moment as is it's the last day, then you'll know how to Treasure..."
[from daz_tee's tab]
listen Gloc 9's Simpleng Tao
read Reign of Greed aka El Filibusterismo
yahn @ 03:13 PM [4 comment/s]
April 28th, 2005
Friendster Bulletin Strikes Again! -_*
--nung ikaw ay bata... nagawa mo ba to?--*kumakain ka ba ng aratilis?
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*pinipilit ka ba matulog ng nanay mo pag hapon at di ka papayagan maglaro pag di ka natulog?
*marunong ka magpatintero, saksak puso, langit-lupa, teleber-teleber, luksong tinik?
*malupit ka pag meron kang atari, family computer or nes?
*alam mo ang silbi ng up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, a, b, a, b, start?
*may mga damit ka na U.S.E.D., Boy London, Cross Colors, Esprit, Blowing Bubbles at pag nakakakita ka ng Bench na damit eh naalala mo si Richard Gomez?
*addict ka sa rainbow brite, carebears, my little pony, thundercats, bioman, voltes v, mazinger z, daimos, he-man at marami pang cartoons na hindi pa translated sa tagalog?
*nanonood ka ng shaider kasi nabobosohan mo si annie at type na type mo ang puting panty nya?
*marunong ka mag wordstar at nakahawak ka na talaga ng 5.25 na floppy disk?
*inaabangan mo lagi ang batibot at akala mo magkakatuluyan si kuya bodgie at ate sienna... nung high school ka inaabangan mo lagi beverly hills 90210?
*gumagamit ka ng AQUANET para pataasin ang bangs mo?
*meron kang blouse na may padding kung babae ka at meron kang sapatos na mighty kid kung lalake ka?
*nangongolekta ka ng paper stationaries at mahilig ka magpapirma sa slumbook mo para lang malaman mo kung sino ang crush ng type mo?
*kilala mo si manang bola at ang sitsiritsit girls?e si luning-ning at luging-ging?
*alam mo ibig sabihin ng time space warp at di mo makakalimutan ang time space warp chant?
*idol mo si McGyver at nanonood kang perfect strangers?
*eto malupet... six digits! lang ba ang phone number nyo dati?
*nakakatawag ka pa sa pay phone ng 3 bentesingko lang ang dala?
*cute pa si aiza seguerra sa eat bulaga at alam mo ang song na "eh kasi bata"?
*inabutan mo ba na ang Magnolia Chocolait eh nasa glass bottle pa na ginagawang lalagyan ng tubig ng nanay mo sa ref?
*meron kang pencil case na maraming compartments na pinagyayabang mo sa mga kaklase mo?
*noon mo pa hinahanap kung saan ang Goya Fun Factory?
*alam mo lyrics ng "tinapang bangus" at "alagang-alaga namin si puti"?
*alam mo ang kantang "gloria labandera".. lumusong sha sa tubig ang paa ay nabasa at ang "1, 2, 3, asawa ni marie"... hehehehehe?
*sosyal ka pag may play-doh ka at Lego... at nag-iipon ka ng G.I. Joe action figures at iba pa ang mukha ni barbie noon?
*inabutan mo pa yung singkong korteng bulaklak at yung diyes na square?
*lumaki kang bobo dahil ang akala mo nangangagat talaga ang alimango sa kantang tong-tong-tong... diba naninipit yun?
*alam mo yung kwento ng pari na binigyan ng pera yung batang umakyat ng puno para bumili ng panty... and shempre, alam mo rin ba kung ano binigay nya sa nanay nung umakyat ng puno?
*meron kang kabisadong kanta ni andrew e na alam mo hanggang ngayon.. aminin?
*laging lampin ang sinasapin sa likod mo pag pinapawisan ka?
*bumibili ka ng tarzan, texas at bazooka bubble gum... tira-tira, at yung kending bilog na sinawsaw sa asukal?
*kinukupit mo pa at nanonood ka ng mga porno tapes ng tatay mo na nasa BETAMAX format pa... at sanay ka tawagin ang porn as BOLD?
*takot ka dumating ang year 2000 dahil sabi nla magugunaw daw ang mundo?
KUNG ALAM MO LAHAT DITO LAGPAS KA NA NG 25 YEARS OLD... KAPAG HALOS LAHAT ALAM MO, NASA 23-25 KA...
WAG KA NA MAG DENY.. TUMAWA KA NA LANG... DIBA .75 CENTAVOS PA LANG PAMASAHE SA JEEP NUN AT MAS MASARAP ANG MELLOW YELLOW KESA MOUNTAIN DEW? HAHAHAHAH
may narinig ka bang kwento tungkol sa pinutol na daliri dahil sa ninakaw na singsing? pagkatanong mo, sino po ang pumutol niyan? ang sagot eh "IKAW!!"
[]>> ang korni eh! pero totoo... hay buhay nga naman... sanan pagdating ko ng ganung gulang may ganito rin akong makikita ^_^
[bakit ba ang LOVE sa panahon ngayon eh defined as SACRIFICE.. TANGA??...]
kani-kanina lang, may sinabi yung friend ko sa isang forum...
sabi niya pag nagmahal daw ang isang tao:
"parang nakakapit sa patalim, nagdudugo na ang kamay mo, hindi ka pa rin bumibitaw..."
totoo nga naman diba? lalo na pag nagpapakamartyr ka... kahit gaano kahirap, kahit gaano kasakit, kapit ka lang ng mahigpit... palalim ng palalim ang sugat, pahigpit ng pahigpit ang hawak mo sa kutsilyo... sa isip mo kasi "mahal ko siya... kailangan maging malakas ako para sa kanya... ipaglalaban ko to..."
ang tanong diyan eh...
GUSTO BA NUNG TAONG YON NA IPAGLABAN MO?
GUSTO BA NUNG TAONG YON NA MAGING MALAKAS KA PARA SA KANYA?
higit sa lahat... ALAM BA NIYA?!!
yan ang hirap sa ganyan eh... kapag wala ka na ibang nakikita kundi yung taong yun, yung taong yun at yung nararamdaman mo para sa
kanya... yun kasi ang bumubulag sayo eh... yung mentalidad na pag nakuha mo siya, makukumpleto ang buhay mo... pagminahal mo siya ng lubos, matututunan ka rin niyang mahalin... basta maiparamdam mo, may pagasa...
EH PANO NGA KUNG WALA? pano nga kung hindi ka naman niya talaga kayang mahalin? pano kung niloloko mo lang pala ang sarili mo? aba siyempre, hindi mo makikita yun... "mahal" mo eh... kaya kung ano lang ang gusto mo makita, yun lang...
kapag magkasama kayo at nakikita mo siyang ngumingiti at masaya,
iniisip mo agad dahil magkasama kayo... yun pala within eye's view lang yung totoong gusto niya kaya ganun...
o kaya kapag nilalapitan ka niya para magtanong, tuwang tuwa ka kasi ikaw ang una niyang nilapitan... yun pala katabi mo lang yung gusto niya kaya sinasamantala niya yung pagkakataon...
kapag nagkasakit ka at tumawag siya o nagtext para mangamusta, halos gumaling ka na in a second sa sobrang tuwa... nagaalala lang pala siya kasi KAIBIGAN ka niya...
KAIBIGAN KA LANG NIYA...
haay...
ipaglaban mo p're, KUNG NARARAPAT... hindi naman masamang ipaglaban eh, kung mahal mo ba naman siya, at mahal ka rin niya eh di why not?
di sapat na MAHAL MO... sa ganyang pagkakataon, mas importanteng MAHAL KA RIN...
dahil kung hindi ka naman niya mahal, panu na yun?
nagpipitik bulag ka na nga, magisa pa...
nagmuka ka lang...........
TANGA...
[]>> i consider this as another dumb statement about love.. read my earlier post and find out for yourself what true love should be all about...
(for girls only! walang personalan.. nakuha ko lang ito at hindi ko kilala orig writer nito.. so please! ^_^)
[]>>all from friendster...
mood YAWNING! ^o^
listen acoustic version of Spongecola's Jeepney
read Reign of Greed aka El Filibusterismo
watch Oprah ^_^
yahn @ 11:11 PM [3 comment/s]